Relationships are being broken up every day; hundreds of them, but that doesn’t make it any easier when it happens to you. To some it is just a fact of life and they put it behind them and move on.
But you may be one who can't treat it so lightly; you love your ex greatly and you want nothing more than to be back together again.
There are some things you can do which will be helpful.
• Try to look at the situation calmly and establish the reason why your boyfriend broke up with you. It is difficult, but you have to be honest with yourself and see if there is anything you can change which will improve the situation between you and perhaps encourage him to be more attracted to you.
• Allow him some space and time to assess the situation from his point of view.
• If you meet him talk to them as a friend and don't pressure them at this stage, but keep contact with him.
If you follow the steps outlined above, you will have established a situation where you begin to work towards your goal of getting back together again. For really helpful and successful information on getting your ex, back I highly recommend The Magic Of Making Up. See the sidebar for a resume of this ebook.
Friday, November 6, 2009
Thursday, November 5, 2009
What can you do if he won't even make contact with you?
There are many suggestions and lots of information out there as to what you should say to him. But if he won't respond to your texts, emails, messages or phone calls, what can you do?
For a start make sure he knows you are available.
You have probably had it suggested to you that you should give him the impression that you are dating someone else, with the expectation this will make him jealous and that he will want to return to you. Be careful, this could backfire on you as he may think that you have moved on and that he should do the same. That is not what you want to happen
Take the opportunity to have a fresh look at what you want your future to be. Perhaps too, it could be useful to ask yourself if there is anything you could change about yourself that would make you more attractive to him. This may be difficult for you to do, but could make a real difference in the way he would feel about you.
For a start make sure he knows you are available.
You have probably had it suggested to you that you should give him the impression that you are dating someone else, with the expectation this will make him jealous and that he will want to return to you. Be careful, this could backfire on you as he may think that you have moved on and that he should do the same. That is not what you want to happen
Take the opportunity to have a fresh look at what you want your future to be. Perhaps too, it could be useful to ask yourself if there is anything you could change about yourself that would make you more attractive to him. This may be difficult for you to do, but could make a real difference in the way he would feel about you.
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